I have not seen my siblings since we began to spend time with one another. That is not unusual, for us. You are not one I have tried to hide, if that was a concern.
[Also his comment about it not being expected....that brings up an interesting question that she might have to ask him further on down the road. Which is: If things continue with them along the lines she thinks it will, do the Endless need to wear condoms?]
To get to know a person you helped bring into the world is quite an extraordinary feeling. Watching him develop his own mind I suppose, while finding mirrors to his mother and myself. He was born mortal, yet when having a child, existence feels timeless in a new manner even to an Endless.
He most certainly does. Apparently as my raven it is ill-fitting for me to make things private, as it’s his role to help me in all matters. What of you, have you anyone in your ear about us? I could lend you Matthew for a spell, if not.
His mother is something else. A muse, to be precise. My ex-wife. How we came to have a mortal child I do not know.
[Desire had sired Rose’s mortal mother, but then, Unity had been human herself.]
[She giggles to herself.] And has Matthew offered you any useful advice when it comes to women and courting? I don't know many people here in Paris but I have told my friend Donna that I am seeing someone new but she has kept her questions to a minimum for the time being.
It's very interesting that your son was mortal, then again maybe not as there are a lot of old tales that speak of immortal beings having human children.
I cannot say his advice has been revelatory, but in his defense, I have actually courted women far longer than he has. And it is not bad advice to advocate learning a woman's likes and dislikes, being invested in her well being, and showing her affection through various means such as time or surprises. I can prioritize work, so it is fair to remind me that people deserve equal consideration.
Your friend sounds respectful of boundaries.
Yes, that also came as a surprise. Truthfully, we did not know what to expect with his arrival. Not that any parent fully does, but they usually know that much.
Sounds like you could give him some pointers then. ;) Uh Dream...have you only ever courted women?
She is, that doesn't mean she isn't insanely curious about you and part of the reason she is able to be respectful of boundaries might be because we are communicating through phone and email. I suspect that if she were to come visit she would all but demand to meet you.
With his adoring audience on your windowsill? He seems to be doing well enough. No, I have courted those outside women. Some were not even human at all.
I trust you to know what you wish to share and not. Donna is the Amazon, yes?
His name is Orpheus.
[No, the tense isn't a typo. No, he doesn't want to elaborate on it. He adds to bypass the answer swiftly.]
Do you see yourself living in Paris for the foreseeable future?
She loves the new teacup bird feeder by the way. :) So, human and not, female and male?
Yes, Donna is the Amazon. When I finally tell her more details I'll be interested to see if she's already heard about you from some of their old books. It wouldn't surprise me.
[......Orpheus? As in....she pauses to let that information sink in. She's heard the legend but at the time thought it was just that and now knowing the story and that Dream was his father. Hrm. She will gracefully switch to the topic he presents.]
I think so yes, I first came here to get away from everything that happened in Gotham but now I'm feeling comfortable and quite happy. Why?
Have the squirrels been partaking of the birdseed as well? And yes, I suppose that summarizes it well.
The Amazons do have their own names and histories with the Endless, yes. Though I would not put words into their perception, she may speak on it should it ever arise. I have admired much of their philosophy, though.
No great reason, honestly. I suppose the discussion of family turned my thoughts to feeling rooted. Which can happen in people, places, or both. Paris is a fine choice to reside. When I have visited the city it has been rich.
Not really actually, I think they are too busy stealing bread from the café next door. Okay, just curious. :)
You have? How come?
It's beautiful here and I like that it's something familiar but has nothing to do with my life with Hank. Most of the memories I have in this apartment are of my mother, we used to come here for vacations when we were little. Just us girls.
I can hardly fault them if fresh bread is also an option.
Why have I admired some of their philosophies? There is a sense of duty and honor I find admirable.
It is quite lovely. The personal attachment I can see only making it better. Perhaps in our next cooking endeavor we shall attempt crepes in its honor.
You say this until Matthew comes to visit at that hour and adds his squawking.
I do have a very different understanding of her, though I have known grief and loss and understand that pain, too. Perhaps one day we might discuss our viewpoints. I do not belittle how you see her, though. She taught me that long ago, by not belittling such pain, either.
He most certainly would. Coffee and pancakes. Which actually sounds quite good right now. Don't tell him.
I think for some there is difficulty distinguishing between the causes that lead to death and her function as Death. I am not saying this is your difficulty with her, merely what I have seen in others. When a life is cut short or has a brutal end, that is outside of her control. She merely is present when they pass so they are not alone, and facilitates their transition to the afterlife. She does not cause their end, she does not pick and choose who and when. Still, death causes grief and anger. It is difficult to extricate those emotions from her function as the end result of natural or person-made causes.
I guess in a way that is comforting to know that my mother and Hank weren't alone after they died, that someone was there to explain things and comfort them. But if she isn't controlling who lives and who dies then what about when someone comes back? Donna died trying to save me but she came back a few months later, does your sister have any involvement with things like that or is that something in itself?
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Date: 2022-10-03 10:41 pm (UTC)You had a son?
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Date: 2022-10-03 10:45 pm (UTC)Yes. Though he was born many centuries ago. The games were ones common in ancient Greece at the time, rather than your modern ones.
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Date: 2022-10-03 10:52 pm (UTC)Oh wow. Do you mind me asking about him or is it a sensitive topic?
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Date: 2022-10-03 10:57 pm (UTC)I would rather not discuss the tragedy that befell him. That he existed though, and his goodness, I am proud to share.
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Date: 2022-10-03 11:00 pm (UTC)Of course. Did you enjoy being a father?
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Date: 2022-10-03 11:23 pm (UTC)It was not expected, but yes. Very much so.
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Date: 2022-10-03 11:30 pm (UTC)What was your favorite part about it?
[Also his comment about it not being expected....that brings up an interesting question that she might have to ask him further on down the road. Which is: If things continue with them along the lines she thinks it will, do the Endless need to wear condoms?]
LOL at her question, but it's a fair one!
Date: 2022-10-04 10:02 am (UTC)To get to know a person you helped bring into the world is quite an extraordinary feeling. Watching him develop his own mind I suppose, while finding mirrors to his mother and myself. He was born mortal, yet when having a child, existence feels timeless in a new manner even to an Endless.
[Apparently.]
hehehe ;)
Date: 2022-10-04 05:02 pm (UTC)That's so beautiful. Was his mother mortal or something else?
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Date: 2022-10-04 07:35 pm (UTC)His mother is something else. A muse, to be precise. My ex-wife. How we came to have a mortal child I do not know.
[Desire had sired Rose’s mortal mother, but then, Unity had been human herself.]
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Date: 2022-10-04 08:11 pm (UTC)It's very interesting that your son was mortal, then again maybe not as there are a lot of old tales that speak of immortal beings having human children.
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Date: 2022-10-04 11:25 pm (UTC)Your friend sounds respectful of boundaries.
Yes, that also came as a surprise. Truthfully, we did not know what to expect with his arrival. Not that any parent fully does, but they usually know that much.
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Date: 2022-10-04 11:32 pm (UTC)She is, that doesn't mean she isn't insanely curious about you and part of the reason she is able to be respectful of boundaries might be because we are communicating through phone and email. I suspect that if she were to come visit she would all but demand to meet you.
May I ask what his name was?
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Date: 2022-10-04 11:49 pm (UTC)I trust you to know what you wish to share and not. Donna is the Amazon, yes?
His name is Orpheus.
[No, the tense isn't a typo. No, he doesn't want to elaborate on it. He adds to bypass the answer swiftly.]
Do you see yourself living in Paris for the foreseeable future?
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Date: 2022-10-04 11:57 pm (UTC)Yes, Donna is the Amazon. When I finally tell her more details I'll be interested to see if she's already heard about you from some of their old books. It wouldn't surprise me.
[......Orpheus? As in....she pauses to let that information sink in. She's heard the legend but at the time thought it was just that and now knowing the story and that Dream was his father. Hrm. She will gracefully switch to the topic he presents.]
I think so yes, I first came here to get away from everything that happened in Gotham but now I'm feeling comfortable and quite happy. Why?
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Date: 2022-10-05 12:07 am (UTC)The Amazons do have their own names and histories with the Endless, yes. Though I would not put words into their perception, she may speak on it should it ever arise. I have admired much of their philosophy, though.
No great reason, honestly. I suppose the discussion of family turned my thoughts to feeling rooted. Which can happen in people, places, or both. Paris is a fine choice to reside. When I have visited the city it has been rich.
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Date: 2022-10-05 12:13 am (UTC)You have? How come?
It's beautiful here and I like that it's something familiar but has nothing to do with my life with Hank. Most of the memories I have in this apartment are of my mother, we used to come here for vacations when we were little. Just us girls.
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Date: 2022-10-05 12:21 am (UTC)Why have I admired some of their philosophies? There is a sense of duty and honor I find admirable.
It is quite lovely. The personal attachment I can see only making it better. Perhaps in our next cooking endeavor we shall attempt crepes in its honor.
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Date: 2022-10-05 12:27 am (UTC)Yes, they have a very strict code when it comes to such things. They also have a high respect for Death.
Crepes! What a fantastic idea! I haven't ever tried to make them but I'd be willing to try if you are.
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Date: 2022-10-05 12:36 am (UTC)I know you have a complicated relationship with her.
I am willing to try, I enjoy them. Particularly paired with fruit. I shall find a recipe for us to follow as we see fit.
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Date: 2022-10-05 12:41 am (UTC)I do and knowing that she's your sister I feel guilty of that.
Oh of course paired with fruit, maybe strawberries? :)
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Date: 2022-10-05 12:54 am (UTC)I do have a very different understanding of her, though I have known grief and loss and understand that pain, too. Perhaps one day we might discuss our viewpoints. I do not belittle how you see her, though. She taught me that long ago, by not belittling such pain, either.
... some with strawberry, some with blueberry?
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Date: 2022-10-05 01:18 am (UTC)Thank you. I'm sorry that it's such a complicated issue with me.
That sounds delightful.
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Date: 2022-10-05 12:55 pm (UTC)I think for some there is difficulty distinguishing between the causes that lead to death and her function as Death. I am not saying this is your difficulty with her, merely what I have seen in others. When a life is cut short or has a brutal end, that is outside of her control. She merely is present when they pass so they are not alone, and facilitates their transition to the afterlife. She does not cause their end, she does not pick and choose who and when. Still, death causes grief and anger. It is difficult to extricate those emotions from her function as the end result of natural or person-made causes.
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Date: 2022-10-05 05:24 pm (UTC)I guess in a way that is comforting to know that my mother and Hank weren't alone after they died, that someone was there to explain things and comfort them. But if she isn't controlling who lives and who dies then what about when someone comes back? Donna died trying to save me but she came back a few months later, does your sister have any involvement with things like that or is that something in itself?
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