Not really actually, I think they are too busy stealing bread from the café next door. Okay, just curious. :)
You have? How come?
It's beautiful here and I like that it's something familiar but has nothing to do with my life with Hank. Most of the memories I have in this apartment are of my mother, we used to come here for vacations when we were little. Just us girls.
I can hardly fault them if fresh bread is also an option.
Why have I admired some of their philosophies? There is a sense of duty and honor I find admirable.
It is quite lovely. The personal attachment I can see only making it better. Perhaps in our next cooking endeavor we shall attempt crepes in its honor.
You say this until Matthew comes to visit at that hour and adds his squawking.
I do have a very different understanding of her, though I have known grief and loss and understand that pain, too. Perhaps one day we might discuss our viewpoints. I do not belittle how you see her, though. She taught me that long ago, by not belittling such pain, either.
He most certainly would. Coffee and pancakes. Which actually sounds quite good right now. Don't tell him.
I think for some there is difficulty distinguishing between the causes that lead to death and her function as Death. I am not saying this is your difficulty with her, merely what I have seen in others. When a life is cut short or has a brutal end, that is outside of her control. She merely is present when they pass so they are not alone, and facilitates their transition to the afterlife. She does not cause their end, she does not pick and choose who and when. Still, death causes grief and anger. It is difficult to extricate those emotions from her function as the end result of natural or person-made causes.
I guess in a way that is comforting to know that my mother and Hank weren't alone after they died, that someone was there to explain things and comfort them. But if she isn't controlling who lives and who dies then what about when someone comes back? Donna died trying to save me but she came back a few months later, does your sister have any involvement with things like that or is that something in itself?
Those who evade death, or who return after it has transpired, are usually outside my sister’s function. There is the rare exception here and there with certain immortals, but she does not bend the laws of nature often or easily. Usually, such cases involve magic and circumstance she has not invoked or granted. Someone I knew… quite well… has evaded her through means I would never recommend, though she has always claimed the price worth it.
[Thessaly is even worse than Hob in that respect.]
Hrm. That makes sense, from what I understand my friend Rachel was partially responsible for helping bring Donna back. When those sorts of things happen does your sister get angry? I'd hate for her to be upset at Rachel, she's just a sixteen year old girl who doesn't understand the limits of her powers yet.
[Can you tell that Dawn is a little bit protective of her?]
I can't imagine Death getting upset at a child. Believe me, she can be quite an annoying pain when she wants to be, but she's also the most compassionate person I know. An adult purposely causing harm for selfish reasons might earn her displeasure, but a desperate bid out of love would likely earn her sympathy.
I'm pretty sure Rachel would resent being called a child but it's good to know your sister wouldn't be upset at her. She's a wonderful girl and I know for a fact she'd probably think you were "cool" if she were to ever meet you.
A demon father, you say? I can't imagine that having gone well. I understand though wanting your life settled before opening it up to others.
Flatterer. [His tone is warm though as he says it.] I should think my appreciation of you would be the highest selling point to her. A show of excellent taste.
It was very hard on her when she learned who her real father was and that her biological mother was using her but she got through it and in a way it helped her figure out who she is and what she stands for. It was less about being settled and more about having enough emotional capacity to deal with others, which I know sounds bad but it's the truth.
I'm just telling you the truth. [Her tone is just as warm.] And yes, that's also a high selling point. But the dark clothes and mysterious vibe doesn't hurt either when you're talking to a sixteen year old goth girl.
I'm sorry she had to endure such a trial, though that is indeed a silver lining. It's true that sometimes our struggles strip away parts of us, but in so doing reveal an unmovable essence at the core. And my apologies, when I said settled, I meant it in more than a physical way. Emotional stability, in a way of speaking. It's okay to make certain you're in a place to truly be a positive influence on those around you before drawing them near. I think so at least, though it's easier to say that to others than internalize.
Is that my vibe, mm? Mysterious. I do suppose not many dreams are blatantly stark.
She was certainly made stronger from it, which I guess is a necessary thing in my line of business. You don't need to apologize, I just thought that I should explain it a little more. Rachel is very dear to me but I was so distraught and messed up after Hank's death I didn't think I could be of any help to her until I had worked through my grief. And now that I have I guess I've been a bit scared to reach out and contact her again.
[She's giggling at you again, Dream.] You know very well that you can be mysterious.
Mostly it's the fear of not being receptive to contact. I left Gotham when things were pretty bad so part of me worries she'll think I was abandoning her as well.
I see. That is a fair concern, I admit. Though perhaps once you explain your reasonings, if she did feel slighted she will find some resolution to that? It is difficult though to make that first step not knowing if you will be granted that chance. If I can offer any support during that venture let me know.
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You have? How come?
It's beautiful here and I like that it's something familiar but has nothing to do with my life with Hank. Most of the memories I have in this apartment are of my mother, we used to come here for vacations when we were little. Just us girls.
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Why have I admired some of their philosophies? There is a sense of duty and honor I find admirable.
It is quite lovely. The personal attachment I can see only making it better. Perhaps in our next cooking endeavor we shall attempt crepes in its honor.
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Yes, they have a very strict code when it comes to such things. They also have a high respect for Death.
Crepes! What a fantastic idea! I haven't ever tried to make them but I'd be willing to try if you are.
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I know you have a complicated relationship with her.
I am willing to try, I enjoy them. Particularly paired with fruit. I shall find a recipe for us to follow as we see fit.
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I do and knowing that she's your sister I feel guilty of that.
Oh of course paired with fruit, maybe strawberries? :)
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I do have a very different understanding of her, though I have known grief and loss and understand that pain, too. Perhaps one day we might discuss our viewpoints. I do not belittle how you see her, though. She taught me that long ago, by not belittling such pain, either.
... some with strawberry, some with blueberry?
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Thank you. I'm sorry that it's such a complicated issue with me.
That sounds delightful.
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I think for some there is difficulty distinguishing between the causes that lead to death and her function as Death. I am not saying this is your difficulty with her, merely what I have seen in others. When a life is cut short or has a brutal end, that is outside of her control. She merely is present when they pass so they are not alone, and facilitates their transition to the afterlife. She does not cause their end, she does not pick and choose who and when. Still, death causes grief and anger. It is difficult to extricate those emotions from her function as the end result of natural or person-made causes.
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I guess in a way that is comforting to know that my mother and Hank weren't alone after they died, that someone was there to explain things and comfort them. But if she isn't controlling who lives and who dies then what about when someone comes back? Donna died trying to save me but she came back a few months later, does your sister have any involvement with things like that or is that something in itself?
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[Thessaly is even worse than Hob in that respect.]
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When those sorts of things happen does your sister get angry? I'd hate for her to be upset at Rachel, she's just a sixteen year old girl who doesn't understand the limits of her powers yet.
[Can you tell that Dawn is a little bit protective of her?]
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Would she? Is it because I wear black?
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Oh very much so. Because you wear all black, because you're extremely good looking and mysterious.
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Flatterer. [His tone is warm though as he says it.] I should think my appreciation of you would be the highest selling point to her. A show of excellent taste.
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I'm just telling you the truth. [Her tone is just as warm.] And yes, that's also a high selling point. But the dark clothes and mysterious vibe doesn't hurt either when you're talking to a sixteen year old goth girl.
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Is that my vibe, mm? Mysterious. I do suppose not many dreams are blatantly stark.
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[She's giggling at you again, Dream.] You know very well that you can be mysterious.
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I can neither confirm nor deny your theory at this time. [Mystery.]
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Uh-huhn, suuuuure. ;)
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[ooc: shall we end this thread here?]
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