It was very hard on her when she learned who her real father was and that her biological mother was using her but she got through it and in a way it helped her figure out who she is and what she stands for. It was less about being settled and more about having enough emotional capacity to deal with others, which I know sounds bad but it's the truth.

I'm just telling you the truth. [Her tone is just as warm.] And yes, that's also a high selling point. But the dark clothes and mysterious vibe doesn't hurt either when you're talking to a sixteen year old goth girl.